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LDS Unmarried Life: Episode 34-Pursue Your Passions and Passion Will Find You!

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My Denver Singles Conference Presentation

entitled “Pursue Your Passions and Passion Will Find You.”

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LDS Unmarried Life-Episode 33-It’s NOT Mutual-Online Dating Stories

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Annette, Michael Swift, Sarah Worlton (on Skype), Emily Ulmer, Melissa Sardoni.

The gang talks about their odd online dating stories.

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LDS Unmarried Life-Episode 32-How Singles Handle Come Follow Me

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Annette, Russ, Doug (on the computer), Drew, and Sarah.

We singles have different ways of handling Come Follow Me,

Whether we’re alone, with kids, or in a group.

We discuss how we implement Come Follow Me and share our successes and failures. Share with us how it’s going for you. Either comment here, on Facebook or YouTube.

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LDS Unmarried Life-Episode 31-Are You Happy in Your Heart with Humanitarian Sarah Worlton

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Sarah Worlton, Humanitarian, joins me to talk about being happy in your heart.

Sarah has been to Guatemala, Nepal, and other countries where she’s worked helping the local people build schools, wells, and other necessities, with Choice Humanitarian. She learned that serving others makes her happy in her heart.

Sarah’s story can be found at http://www.areyouhappyinyourheart.blogspot.com. You can also find her on Facebook and Instagram. Choice Humanitarian can be found at http://www.choicehumanitarian.org.

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LDS Unmarried Life Podcast-Episode 29-Pornography, Sex Addiction, and Singles

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Jim R. Jabobs, LCSW, CWFC, joins me again to discuss how we as singles can openly talk to each other about pornography and sex addictions. I think this is extremely important as we all have at least been exposed to pornography, and many of us have either dated, been friends with, or had our own issues with pornography, and some with sex addictions. Jim can be found at https://jimrjacobs.com/or https://www.drivinglessonsforlife.com/. Please subscribe to me here, on YouTube, comment here or on my Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/annettetalks/. If you’re listening on iTunes, please rate and review the podcast so other listeners can find it.

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What Singles Should do with that ‘Extra’ Hour on Sunday

Last weekend my friend visited with me and we talked about the changes happening in the church, how exciting they were, and how the church will look very different by this time next year. Then he looked at me and said “I haven’t figured out what I should be doing as a single with the extra hour on Sunday.”

That was an easy answer for me. I’m a single mom with three school-aged children. When I watched conference with another single mom, we paused the session and immediately and discussed what we would do. My girls always say they hate school. But what did they do on the first day of school when they got home? They set up a schoolroom in the living room and began playing school! I looked at my friend and said “I’m going to set up a ‘school of the prophets’ here in my living room. I’m going to get a white board and we’re going to set up chairs and we’re each going to have our copy of Come Follow Me and the scriptures and every Sunday we’re going to take turns teaching each other. The girls are going to love it!” (I shared my plans with my girls later and they have asked me on more than one occasion when we can get started.) I also bought a white board and set it up just to get them used to the idea. I find them playing school with it on a regular basis already.

Furthermore, we agreed that ‘gathering’ was a big theme of conference and we felt like single moms and dads should gather with other single moms and dads with their kids and combine for ‘school of the prophets’ some Sundays. They can take turns switching homes, or with the bishop’s permission, use the church building. These ideas felt wonderful and my friend and I agreed that we would combine our 6 kids some Sundays. We would also let our kids take turns teaching the class. Of course we don’t have all of the details ironed out yet, and we don’t know how these sessions will work out, but I believe that this will accomplish some important things:

1. The children will learn that the home is the central place where they will learn the gospel.
2. They will gain confidence in their public speaking and teaching abilities.
3. They will gain an appreciation for and knowledge of the scriptures and the gospel.
4. They will (hopefully) gain similar respect for their parents that they currently have for their secular teachers. (True story, when my kids are really acting up and won’t obey me, I threaten to email or text their school teachers and they straighten up!)

Obviously, numbers two and three will help prepare children for their missions. Number four is my hope and maybe pipe dream! Number one is where the church is leading us. For a multitude of reasons, we are being guided to turn our homes into the central place for gospel learning. It is to become our primary ‘holy place,’ before the church building and the temple. So we need to make our homes even more sacred than they are now. Teaching children formally and informally needs to be happening in the home regularly.

But my friend doesn’t have any children. So what should he be doing with that extra hour? I believe this is where the push for more ‘gathering’ comes in. I think that the prophet wants us to do more informal gathering, away from the church building. I believe that singles without children should have their own ‘school of the prophets.’ They should take turns hosting these schools in their homes with other singles. I can picture them with their own Come Follow Me manuals and scriptures doing the same thing we parents will be doing with our children, but with each other. (Of course, their meetings will probably be a lot less rowdy and there will probably be less crying!)

There are other ways to gather. I have begun gathering singles in my home during the times I don’t have my children. I host Break the Fasts, game nights, and more recently round table discussions for my podcast. (You can find my podcast LDS Unmarried Life at www.annettetalks.com). Every time I gather singles, I come away feeling more camaraderie, unity, and a sense of being a part of a supportive group. I feel like the singles I have come to know through gathering have truly become my sisters and brothers. I know that I can call on any one of them when I need help or a listening ear. I hope they always feel like they can come over, call, text, or reach out in some other way.

I love the changes to the block schedule because this means we can truly make our homes a place of learning and gathering, and singles have a huge part in this, whether they have children, or whether they choose to make their home a hub for other singles without children.

LDS Unmarried Life Podcast: Steve Soelberg Interview




Please subscribe to receive every podcast. In this episode I sit down with LDS single comedian Steve Soelberg. We talk about his career, his dating life, and life in general. Please comment about what you think about Steve, this podcast, or being single in the church.

LDS Unmarried Podcast: Episode 3-Round Table Discussion on Loneliness, Kissing, etc.

In this episode a group of LDS single guys and gals sat down and talked about how they deal with loneliness. Please comment on this episode and let us know what you do to deal with loneliness. Or send me an email at annette@annettetalks.com.

LDS Unmarried Podcast: Episode 2-Dating After Divorce Book, Ch. 1

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In this episode, Annette Bybee and Steve Smith read their chapter one of their book Dating After Divorce: An LDS Survival Guide, and comment on it. Please comment on it it below and let us know what you think, or if you have ideas for future podcast episodes.

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LDS Unmarried Podcast Episode 1-The Intro

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Welcome to LDS Unmarried Life, a podcast aimed at divorced, widowed, and not-yet-married members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. My goal is to be a gathering place where we can discuss the issues we face as singles striving to stay active and valiant in the Church. Please comment on my episodes and let me know what you would like to see more (or less) of. Or drop me an email at annette@annettetalks.com

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